Thailand

Although Thailand is not as LGBTQ+-friendly as North America and Western Europe by comparison, by Asian standards, it is one of the most LGBTQ+-friendly countries on the continent. Thailand is one of the few countries in Asia that is reviewing passing civil partnership legislation. In addition, anti-discrimination laws have been in place in Thailand since 2015 and it offers some of the best protections for the transgender community in Asia.

Nonetheless, as with most places in Asia, Thai society is conservative. Outward displays of affection are generally uncommon by both straight and same-sex couples. For example, when greeting someone for the first time, the Thais do not hug or kiss and rarely shake hands. Instead they traditionally put their palms together in a lotus bud by the chest and bow the head.  LGBTQ+ travelers to Thailand are unlikely to ever encounter homophobia during their holiday. It is a destination that is sure to captivate you so that you will no doubt be planning your next trip back to the Land of Smiles as soon as you’ve departed.

Thailand offers the perfect holiday. Bangkok is the largest transport hub with a terrific LGBTQ+ scene, Chiang Mai in the north is a great base to get a more cultural insight into the temples and enjoy some outdoor fun in the mountains and finally, the islands in the south offer the ideal beach holiday.

Thailand is tropical and hot throughout the year. It has three seasons: hot, cold and rainy. The cold season is from November to February, when temperatures are on average a comfortable mid 20s Celsius (77 F). This is Thailand’s peak season, especially around Christmas, New Year’s and the Chinese New Year in February. The hot season is from March to June, with average temperatures around 30-35 degrees Celsius (86-95 F). This may be too hot for some, so Thailand is less busy during this shoulder season.

The rainy season varies slighty depending on which coast you are visiting, but generally starts around June and continues to late October. During this time, it does not rain constantly, but almost every day there are periods of intense rain lasting for no more than a few hours. This is Thailand’s low season with some islands shutting down completely and boat services limited during stormy weather.

Bangkok

Silom in Bangkok is home to a large LGBTQ+ scene in Thailand. The pedestrianized road Silom Soi 4 is a staple for all LGBTQ+ travelers visiting Bangkok with many bars, which are busy every night of the week. A few blocks away is Silom Soi 2 where the city’s gay clubs like DJ Station can be found. Bangkok also has many modern shopping malls as well as sightseeing gems worth visiting such as the Grand Palace, Wat Pho, Wat Arun, the Khlong Lat Mayom floating market and the bustling streets of the city’s Chinatown.

Chiang Mai

Chiang Mai is the largest city in North Thailand and is considered the country's top cultural destination, housing more than 300 Buddhist temples. Many well-known temples can be found within the walled historic center, but the most famous temple is Wat Phra That Doi Suthep, which overlooks the city from a mountainside 13km (8 mi) away. The mountains also offer outdoor adventures, from treks to biking. Other cultural highlights in Chiang Mai include cooking, perfecting your haggling skills at the night market and visiting a reputable elephant sanctuary like the Elephant Nature Park.

Krabi

Krabi is a city in Southwest Thailand and is a convenient base to visit some of the more popular islands in the Andaman Sea, like Koh Phi Phi and Koh Lanta. Krabi is surrounded by limestone karsts, and its white sandy beaches are popular, particularly Ao Nang and Railay Beach. Also worth a visit is the Wat Tham Sua “Tiger Cave,” part of a temple complex where monks live and worship within a maze of natural caves surrounded by lush jungle.

Koh Lipe

Koh Lipe is a small island in the southwest, close to the Malaysian border. Sunrise Beach is the cleanest beach on the island with the clearest water. The healthy coral rich with marine life makes it ideal for snorkeling. There are plenty of upmarket hotels on Sunrise Beach, as well as more budget-friendly options and even a gay-owned guesthouse. Koh Adang is a large secluded island close to Koh Lipe just 10 minutes away by tailboat. It’s ideal for a day trip for snorkeling and to escape the large crowds of Koh Lipe.

Koh Tao

Koh Tao island is in southeast Thailand and famous for scuba diving. Most come here to get their PADI certification from one of the many dive shops and as a result, Koh Tao has become quite touristy. Nonetheless, it remains an island worth visiting not just for the underwater world, but for the many beautiful beaches. The most popular beach on the island is Sairee Beach on the west side. More secluded beaches worth checking out include Freedom Beach in the south and Ao Tanote in the east.

Getting up close with elephants in Chiang Mai

Thai food is world famous and for good reason. It’s full of flavor, easy to make and very healthy. The most famous Thai dish is Pad Thai, which is a stir-fried rice noodle dish cooked with eggs, fish sauce, garlic, shallots, bean sprouts, coriander leaves, tofu or chicken, tamarind pulp and served with spring onions, crushed nuts and lime juice. It was popularized during World War II and has become the country’s national dish.

Although Thailand lags behind North America and Western Europe with regards to LGBTQ+ rights, by Asian standards, Thailand is a LGBTQ+-friendly country. Homosexuality was legalized in 1956, well before the UK in 1967 and the United States (on a national level) in 2003. Gays and lesbians have been allowed to serve openly in the military since 2005 and many pieces of anti-discrimination legislation have been introduced since 2015. Recognition of same-sex couples is under review, but adoption for same-sex couples remains illegal. Thailand also has very progressive laws for the transgender community, with the right to change legal gender enshrined in law since 2007.

LGBTQ+ tourists are unlikely to encounter any homophobia in Thailand. The country has been welcoming LGBTQ+ tourists for decades and it remains one of the most popular LGBTQ+-friendly destinations across the entire continent. However, Thai society is overall conservative, so all visitors should exercise caution with public displays of affection.

LGBTQ+ Travel Tips for Thailand

The most LGBTQ+-friendly destination in Thailand is most likely Bangkok, which offers one of the best LGBTQ+ scenes in Asia. Phuket and Pattaya are also popular LGBTQ+ destinations in the country. Other islands which have a small LGBTQ+ community include Koh Pha-Ngan, Koh Samui and even tiny Koh Lipe. Phuket Pride is the country’s largest LGBTQ+ event, which takes place in April and has been going strong since 1999.

Bangkok used to have a pride event from 1999 until 2009, but was discontinued because of a mix of disinterest from local Thai activists, lack of funding and homophobia from the police and government.

Finally, Songkran in Thailand during April is the celebration of the Thai New Year. People celebrate by throwing water and talcum powder at each other in the streets and there are many festivals taking place. During this time, there are also numerous LGBTQ+ events, in particular the GCircuit festival in Bangkok and TropOut in Phuket.

Additional Resources

For additional information on LGBTQ+ tourism in Thailand, please visit www.gothaibefree.com.

We are gay couple Stefan and Sebastien from London, who left our lives in London in 2014 to travel the world. We write about the different gay scenes in each destination we visit in our gay travel blog called Nomadic Boys.